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mendthemarriage Posted: 12-Feb-20 11:36
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Perhaps you're trying to find ways to save your marriage from divorce. If that is true then you've come to the right place because there are a lot of things you can do to help your situation. Looking for answers to the question 'how do I save my marriage' is completely normal and the question you should be asking.

There are no short answers to this question though nor are there quick solutions. To save marriage from divorce normally takes a lot of time, effort, and commitment. And this effort needs to come from both you and your spouse, but it certainly can be done. With the right effort and commitment you can certainly save marriage no matter how much trouble your marriage is in.

In a mobile modern society, it is not going to be easy to work through your marriage problems. Marriage relationships often struggle because of issues like broken trust, infidelity, poor communication, lack of appreciation for each other, boredom, addictive behaviors, emotional or physical abuse, absence of sex, unfulfilled expectations of sex and a lack of affection. We sometimes don't want to see or admit to struggles and therefore we tend to gloss over things and convince ourselves that everything is okay.

But problems in marriages are most often like snowballs rolling down a hill. If they aren't addressed they just get bigger and escalate. So as soon as you've identified there are problems, then you need to take action and think about possible solutions and start implementing them.

Your problems may seem insurmountable at first. And you may need help from a professional to help you uncover some of the underlying problems or issues. You need to be prepared to do whatever it will take to save marriage, especially if you have kids, if you are going to be successful.

The first thing you need to try and figure out is why your spouse or even your self is not happy in your marriage. One thing you might find is hard to do is be offended by what your partner says when you're talking to your spouse. This is not very helpful at all in fact most of the time it brings a lot of frustration and grief to your spouse. You should also not blame your spouse when things go wrong, it doesn't matter whose fault it is. Finding whose fault something is doesn't help in any way. Finding solutions to problems is what you need.

Another thing that creates problems in a relationship is a lack of maturity. This can sometimes be evident when one spouse is taking care of a larger portion of work around the house, while the other seems to do little to help. This can be a fatal problem in a marriage.

One of the most important things you need to do is find out the root of problems. Then once you know what they are you can start working things out. Another important step is to identify what each of your personal needs are. Finally it's important for each of you to realize that you need to be always learning, and discovering new ways of understanding each other and showing your love to each other.
One important thing I've learned is if you don't start taking action right away to get your marriage sorted out, there's very little chance you'll do it later.

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